Living in another country as an immigrant can be a rewarding yet challenging experience. Today, I want to discuss a topic that’s been on my mind and may spark some discussion: What do locals in Mexico, particularly Yucatán, really think about foreigners moving into their cities? As an African American living in Mérida for nearly five years, I’ve encountered both the joys and the struggles of being an expat. But it wasn’t until I started posting about my experiences in TikTok that I realized how divided opinions can be. The comments got so intense that I had to disable them at times.
I wondered, "How do locals truly feel about immigrants, especially families like mine?" To get some real answers, I turned to Reddit and asked Yucatecos directly. The responses I received were both eye-opening and, at times, uncomfortable. Let’s dive into what people had to say and what it means for the future of immigration in Mexico.
Asking Reddit: The Unfiltered Truth
On a Sunday, I posted a question on the Yucatan subreddit in Spanish, asking locals for their thoughts on foreigners, particularly African Americans, who want to make Yucatán their permanent home. While some responses were supportive, others were much less welcoming. One comment in particular stood out:
"I realized that you mentioned that you are African American. I would prefer not to bring your racist and divisive policies here. Nobody wants your grievance policies based on race. Leave that behind, and you're welcome."
It was clear that mentioning my race and cultural background hit a nerve for some people. Out of 63 respondents, 10 brought up my race, while the majority focused on other concerns like the economy and gentrification.
Gentrification: The Elephant in the Room
By far, the most common concern was the economic impact of foreigners moving to Mérida. Many locals feel that the influx of expats is driving up the cost of housing and everyday goods, making it harder for them to live comfortably in their own city. One comment summed it up perfectly:
"Foreigners coming here with their purchasing power are making everything more expensive, from housing to everyday goods, pushing locals out of their neighborhoods."
Many others echoed this sentiment, emphasizing that the issue isn’t so much about foreigners being different as about the affordability crisis they contribute to.
Breaking Down the Comments: What the Graph Reveals
I’ve compiled the key themes into a graph to better understand the responses. As you can see, most comments focused on the economic impact of foreigners and the rising concern about gentrification. This was followed closely by discussions on cultural integration and respecting local customs. Interestingly, only a small portion of the comments directly addressed race.
The graph highlights that while race can be a point of contention, it is not the primary concern for most locals. Instead, their focus is on how immigrants affect their quality of life—particularly in terms of housing affordability and the preservation of cultural norms. This breakdown offers a clearer picture of what matters most to the community, and it's a crucial reminder for those of us moving here: contributing to the local culture and economy positively is key to being accepted.
Embracing Local Culture: The Key to Acceptance
Another recurring theme was the importance of cultural integration. Locals want immigrants to embrace their customs rather than imposing their own. As one person put it:
"Consume, share, and embrace the culture; don’t try to impose the culture of where you’re from. If you become part of the Yucatecan or Mérida culture, you won’t have any problems."
As a long-term resident, I’ve made it my mission to integrate into the local community. It's been an enriching journey from learning the language to understanding the traditions. One example is the thoughtful tradition of giving gifts at children’s birthday parties. Here, every child in the class brings a gift, even if they can’t attend. Small gestures like these make me feel more connected to this place.
Personal Experience: A Remarkable 5 Years
Despite the challenges, my time in Mérida has been remarkable. I’ve never experienced a racist incident here, which is a stark contrast to the daily microaggressions I encountered in the U.S. The sense of respect I’ve felt in Mérida has been overwhelming, and it’s made my experience all the more positive.
Conclusion: Moving Forward with Respect
Living in another country comes with its responsibilities. As expats, we must respect local cultures, contribute positively to the community, and minimize our impact on the people who call this place home. By doing so, we can create a harmonious environment where everyone thrives.
If you’re thinking about moving to Mexico, let’s have a conversation about how we can do it thoughtfully and respectfully. Leave your thoughts in the comments below, and check out my other posts for more insights on expat life in Mérida!
Until next time,
Mexitplans Monte